Studying part-time, working full-time

Last night, after another four hour class (straight after a full day at the office), I was once again reminded of how serious a commitment studying part-time while working full-time really is. So today I have set aside a little time to blog about how my life has changed.

1. Time is more valuable than ever before. I plan my entire week to the nearest hour. When something goes wrong and I’m late for a date with my books, I get really edgy. I don’t want to mess up this relationship.

Photo from cookiemonster2009 on Flickr

2. I have a limited social life. Actually, that is putting it mildly. I have no social life. I have to decline invitations to parties and launches and events because I’m drafting my assignment and researching some monster concepts. I haven’t seen my friends in weeks.
3. My ass has started to take on the form of my chair, and my elbows have desk indentations.
Image from DarkStar701 on Flickr

4. I only have time for one hobby and I have chosen to continue horse riding. It really is the only thing that keeps me sane. It also provides me with an opportunity to talk to people who are not in academia or the media industry. It also gets me outside a bit, so I can maintain a slight tan and not look like a total nerd.
5. I dream in words and theories. No more dinosaurs or back to school nightmares – I dream in Strategic Communication.
6. Instead of conventional massages, I now have brain massages. These are incredibly satisfying, even if they leave me a little tender afterwards.
Image from biologycorner on Flickr

7. People take me more seriously. It’s one thing to say you’re studying again, but it’s another when you say it’s a Masters degree. It makes people sit up and pay attention.
8. Whenever I am on campus, I am slapped by the realisation that I am not that young anymore. Most of the students at UJ have barely cleared 20. I’m closer to 30.
9. Meals have changed. They need to be quick and easy and highly nutritious. To save time, I need to mess as little as possible. And if there is a supply of leftovers, I become very excited.
10. There has been a serious shift in the way I view the professional world. I am constantly relating real life situations back to my studies and I try and find a practical application for every theory. And the worst part is there are gaps in both.

I have another 20 months or so to go, but my gut feel is that it will be worth it.

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Studying part-time, working full-time

3 thoughts on “Studying part-time, working full-time

  1. I am 28 working full time and studying party time, and got married 3 months ago. This semester I am struggling in one of the subjects that needs alot of time and I lake time, everyday I wake up thinking that oneday I might breakdown and crash…. Its so hard to keep on track, and not to loose focus. But this semester I have a feeling that am gonna fail in one subject because the pro is bad and I dont have just more time to study. 😦

    1. Hang in there. It’s worth it. Last year was exceptionally tough on me, but I hung in there and got through. Yes, I made sacrifices, but the sense of achievement really makes it worth it. Somehow, and with serious burn out at the end of the year, I managed to pull of a distinction.

      And take advantage of those who support and love you. They keep you going.

      Good luck.

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